The last month has been a bit of a whirlwind. It has been a bit of an adjustment, in a lot of ways, but also fairly easy in other aspects.
Not a day goes by that I don't think about something from the Dominican, the people, places and things I miss. Sometimes I forget that my friends are so far away. Take the other day for example, when I was standing at the bus stop waiting to catch a bus downtown and I saw a silver VW drive by, exactly like the one that Manuel owns. My first thought was, "oh, I wonder if that was Manuel," and then immediately my brain kicked in and reminded me that it was definitely not Manuel. I've had a few skype dates so far, but it still feels weird and horribly distant. Luckily, all of the various forms of communication we have are really handy. I finally got a blackberry again and I love being able to instantly send pictures in the moment to Ozumy and Maria showing them what I'm doing or seeing, and I love being able to receive pictures from them of those people, places and things that I miss so much.
At the same time, I have enjoyed a lot of what I love about home. Being able to see my family and friends on a regular basis, going to my favourite restaurants and other places in the city, wearing my favourite clothes and shoes, cooking, getting to feel cozy again - it is all so wonderful! I have even got to take in 2 Oilers' games since I got back, and even though we lost both of the games, it felt really good to be singing my national anthem, drinking Molson and cheering on my team!
Today, I started my new job, and because of that, it seemed fitting to write my last post that would wrap up the insane adventure that was this past year. Going to work today made reality set in. I'm back in Canada and here to stay (at least for the foreseeable future). So now, I just get to reminisce about all the crazy memories, both good and bad. Everything from eating green Mangos that Paula picked off a tree on our walk home, the day David lit the sink on fire to kill a centipede, having rats eating at our kitchen door, living in the princess room, relaxing on catamarans, eating beach food, breakfasts with Ozumy, Saturday afternoons with Maria, learning how to play Dominos, drinking at the colmado, power outages, explosions in the night, the pouring rain, the insanely hot sun, Orlando and I with our fry masks, Pavol making his own rum infusions in our fridge, looking out to sea on the Malecon with Andrew, videotaping the morning commute with Robert, Marola teaching and testing me and my Spanish over lunch, driving with Manuel, riding in carritos, chinola juice, mentoring Lostania, never understanding Yeimy when she spoke in her extremely quick Spanish, Sylvia's driving making me car sick, paragliding with Arturo and his friends, pilates with Mari, all those crazy Norwegians, prepping O for his move to Canada, teaching JCL English, all the laughs I shared with Sr. S and J, finding ways to communicate with L, learning I had a good friend in E, the girls at Sweet Bakery, Super Pola, lunches at the MC with Zak, rides to and from the airport with Don Pedro, Gerardo and 2 Pinocchios, eating at IKEA, the watchiman, the fruit vendors, to the slow internet, the ants, Marlon and Mariangeles' wedding, my mosquito net, moldy clothing and Zona Colonial. All of it. I wouldn't change a thing and will cherish all of these moments forever.
Gracias por todo! Abrazos y besos!
Tuesday, March 29, 2011
Saturday, March 5, 2011
One Week Later...
Similar to how I felt when I arrived in the Dominican, I feel like I've been here forever already. So far, the adjustment has been good and the "reverse culture shock" hasn't been too strong. The biggest adjustment has been the cold. Living in 30 degree weather for an entire year, and then having to come home to -25 (-35 with windchill) was a huge adjustment. However, I am happy to report that yesterday, it was about -14 and it felt bearable to me! Hurray for becoming acclimatized!
The thing I miss most so far are the people. Oddly though, I still sort of feel like I'm on vacation and that soon I will be going back. I think I'll actually go through a much harder time in a few weeks. Since I left, I've also gained a new friend I didn't know that I had back when I was there. One of my coworkers just started talking with me during my last few days in the country and then sent me an amazing email earlier this week in which I learned just how much we have in common. While it was sad to think that we could have had this friendship for longer and in person, I am happy that it was able to be discovered, regardless of the timing.
I am definitely more aware of my surroundings and how crazy we Edmontonians are to live in such a climate. While driving over to Bart's place yesterday, I started laughing about the size of the snow piles on the lots of the houses. I just thought about how ridiculous this would seem to most of my Dominican friends. I made sure to snap some pictures to give you an idea.
Also, when I'm out driving with Bart or my brother (I've yet to put insurance back on my own car) I keep thinking to myself, if we were in the Dominican, we could totally run this red right now, or we could totally decide this was a turning lane... But at the end of the day, I am comforted by the order and all the rules we have here.
I've also been working hard to push myself back into my old life - but only into the parts of my old life I want to keep. Bart and I went to the symphony last weekend, I've done a bit of shopping at some of my favourite stores, attended my first committee meeting in a year for Encore, and tonight, we went to the Art Gallery for the new exhibition opening and a lecture on Emily Carr. I get really excited by these things, it is like the parts of me that had to be suppressed before, for survival, are able to be freed again.
I've been spending most of my days at the condo, organizing and unpacking, although it is slow going. The job search is still happening, with more applications going out every few days. I have also been making a lot of time for my goals, especially the cooking one. Bart has been spoiled by lots of homemade meals and treats!
I also got my hair cut yesterday. It feels quite different, especially after going for a year without one! I am also taking every chance I get to drink water straight from the tap and, slowly, I am becoming less paranoid that every little tickle I feel on my arm is an ant or a mosquito.
So overall, lots of little changes, but so far, things are going rather smoothly! It will be interesting to see what the next few weeks bring!
The thing I miss most so far are the people. Oddly though, I still sort of feel like I'm on vacation and that soon I will be going back. I think I'll actually go through a much harder time in a few weeks. Since I left, I've also gained a new friend I didn't know that I had back when I was there. One of my coworkers just started talking with me during my last few days in the country and then sent me an amazing email earlier this week in which I learned just how much we have in common. While it was sad to think that we could have had this friendship for longer and in person, I am happy that it was able to be discovered, regardless of the timing.
I am definitely more aware of my surroundings and how crazy we Edmontonians are to live in such a climate. While driving over to Bart's place yesterday, I started laughing about the size of the snow piles on the lots of the houses. I just thought about how ridiculous this would seem to most of my Dominican friends. I made sure to snap some pictures to give you an idea.
Also, when I'm out driving with Bart or my brother (I've yet to put insurance back on my own car) I keep thinking to myself, if we were in the Dominican, we could totally run this red right now, or we could totally decide this was a turning lane... But at the end of the day, I am comforted by the order and all the rules we have here.
I've also been working hard to push myself back into my old life - but only into the parts of my old life I want to keep. Bart and I went to the symphony last weekend, I've done a bit of shopping at some of my favourite stores, attended my first committee meeting in a year for Encore, and tonight, we went to the Art Gallery for the new exhibition opening and a lecture on Emily Carr. I get really excited by these things, it is like the parts of me that had to be suppressed before, for survival, are able to be freed again.
I've been spending most of my days at the condo, organizing and unpacking, although it is slow going. The job search is still happening, with more applications going out every few days. I have also been making a lot of time for my goals, especially the cooking one. Bart has been spoiled by lots of homemade meals and treats!
I also got my hair cut yesterday. It feels quite different, especially after going for a year without one! I am also taking every chance I get to drink water straight from the tap and, slowly, I am becoming less paranoid that every little tickle I feel on my arm is an ant or a mosquito.
So overall, lots of little changes, but so far, things are going rather smoothly! It will be interesting to see what the next few weeks bring!
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